Making time for travel
F
inding time to travel is a significant challenge for
many readers.
Time and money compete for top ranking in what holds
you back most from more travel. Since I've written a
number of posts on the issue of money, I now want to
take on the challenge of time.
To a large degree, the time we have available for
travel is affected by our values and the time demanded
of us to act on them. Whether and how we respond to
these demands on our time reveals what we hold
important in our lives. Finding the time to travel is
about our values and the type of life we want to
live.
“Life is art. It's about making something
timeless out of limited time.”*
The memories of your travels are timeless. But then so
are the joys of relationships and the meaning and
satisfaction of work or volunteering. The question is:
what kind of art do you want to make of your life?
Assuming that your work of art will have competing
priorities, only one of which is travel, below are
some tips to help you capture as much of it as
possible.
Finding Time to Travel Can Improve
Everything
Research suggests that there are four main factors
that affect how much time we have for travel –
or, for that matter, for making our life a work of
art.
Work (our present and future need for money).
Career or vocation (the need to create our
identity).
Responsibilities to family (my definition of family
extends to anyone we may care for).
What other people think (the need to feel
respected).
Each of these is important, however, pursuing
activities that increase your happiness is important
too.
Sound selfish? It isn't.
A research survey done at the University of California
in 2005 called The Benefits of Frequent Positive
Affect: Does Happiness Lead to Success? suggests that
numerous studies show that happy individuals are more
successful in life, including marriage, friendship,
income, work performance, and health. In other words,
you'll do a better job at work, as a caregiver, or as
a student if you're happy.
Budgeting Time for Travel
We budget money for travel. For most of us it is possible to budget time for it as well.
First, give yourself permission to take time to travel. Yes, you have responsibilities, but that does not mean that you can't give yourself permission to take some time for yourself.
Once you've given yourself permission, you need to find the time on a practical level. Whether the demands on your time come from having a young family, being a primary caregiver for someone, the demands of work, career dreams, or your own business, here's how to find travel time within the realities of life and how to best use this time for a great travel experience.
Identify what is realistic within the constraints of your life. Does your life allow for a half-day to yourself every week, a weekend once a quarter, or three weeks every year? Given your responsibilities and your aspirations, define how much time you think you can and should have. Be creative.
Perhaps you can combine some vacation time with public holidays or even weekends to give yourself a more extended opportunity.
For those facing the challenge of having to visit family on those few precious vacation days, consider meeting them somewhere other than home and try to build extra solo time on either side of the family vacation.
Haul out a calendar/planner and look at it with the time chunks you've defined. Are you looking for the best half-day to take weekly micro-vacations or are you looking for three weeks all together just once in the year? If you are a caregiver, find respite care and choose your day based on its availability. If you're building a career, know the cycles of your workplace and plan for your multiple weeks of vacation during quieter times. You could even consider a career break.
Schedule your travel time. Inform all those around you when you will be taking time to travel so that they can plan around you as well.